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Taking
care of BABY
MommyChic
explores how to take care of newborns. From diapering
to napping to bathing, MommyChic has answers for
you.
Diapering
Bathing
Sleeping
By Heather
Hales, associate editor; Kathleen Gordon-Ross,
associate editor; and Lori Garcia, editor-in-chief
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Diapering
101
Here are a couple of
quick tips and helpful hints about diapers and diapering.
Have A
Diaper Stock Pile
There is
a lot of talk about how many diapers your little one will actually
use on a given day, week, month. Most statistics say they'll
go through roughly 80-100 diapers a week during their first few
weeks. As they get older, I promise they don't use as many
diapers!! But that gives you a good idea of how many packages
of newborns you should keep on hand for your first month home.
One book
I read suggested that you only have one package of newborns and
one package of size 1 diapers when your babies born because you
really don't know how big your baby will be or how quickly they
will grow out of the newborn size. This is true, but I can
tell you from experience it sure was nice to have a "stock pile"
of diapers stored under my babies crib. I made sure we had
a good supply of size newborn through 3 before she was born.
I'd buy them on sale and when I had coupons - it really helped
to spread out the cost and we never had to make a midnight run
to Wal-Mart. Here's another FYI - if your babe out grows
a size you have stocked up on, take the unopened packages back
to the store and exchange them for a larger size. We had
to do that a couple of times.
Save Those
Coupons!!
Pampers
and Huggies are really good about sending out coupons for diapers
and wipes. Save those suckers - and use them! Each
coupon is worth $1.50 - $2.00 off each package, which really ads
up when you're going through 2-3 packages a month. If you
don't have enough coupons to use on each package you buy, check
out your favorite brands Web site and get on their mailing list,
and have friends and family watch the Sunday paper for coupons.
Changing
Table - Yes or No?
This question
is totally up to you on what you want to do. I survived
without a changing table, but I have friends who swear by them.
It's really up to you. The reason I went without a changing
table was that I couldn't find a style I liked that was in my
price range. So we spread a bath towel folded in half down
on the floor near the babies crib and that's where we changed
her. Wipes and diapers were stored under the crib with a
small basket of other supplies - diaper rash cream, alcohol wipes
for the cord, small toy, extra binky and ALWAYS an clean burp
cloth. That set up has been great for us - and the bath
towel has saved our carpet from a multitude of stains!
Wherever
you decide to change your baby make sure it's comfortable for
both you and the babe. And that all your needed supplies
are close at hand whether it's in a changing stations drawer or
in a basket on the floor.
If you
live in a two-story consider having a second basket of changing
necessities for unexpected blowouts or when you simply don't have
the energy to climb the stairs one more time.
Masking
Tape & Diapers
One more
tip I read in a great 'getting ready for baby book.' They
suggested having a roll of masking tape in your basket of diaper
changing supplies. Why - you'd be amazed at the number of
tabs you can rip off a diaper when you're in a hurry. Masking
tape allows you 'repair' the diaper and still use it without having
to throw a clean diaper away.
Bathing
101
* Once
the babies Umbilical cord falls off (about 3 weeks) it is ok to
bath your baby. Prior to loosing the Umbilical Cord, a sponge
bath is all your baby will need.
* Babies
have such delicate skin that they do not need to be bathed every
day; every other day depending on your babies skin should be fine.
* Add
a bit of scented oil to your baby's bath, or use a hypoallergenic
scented lotion on your baby after a bath, to give her a sweet
smell. (Do a patch test on the inside of baby's forearm and wait
24 hours to see if there is a reaction)
* Set
out all the bathing supplies before you even start, that way you'll
have everything you need at your fingertips.
* Work
at waist level this allows you the most steady support for a wet
slippery baby.
* Bath
water should be room temperature, not hot. Test this with
the inside of your wrist.Have A Diaper Stock Pile
There is
a lot of talk about how many diapers your little one will actually
use on a given day, week, month. Most statistics say they'll
go through roughly 80-100 diapers a week during their first few
weeks. As they get older, I promise they don't use as many
diapers!! But that gives you a good idea of how many packages
of newborns you should keep on hand for your first month home.
10-Steps
for Bathing Baby
-thanks
to marthastewart.com
| #1.
Ready your supplies:
a waist-high sturdy table, a plastic tub, 2 washcloths,
2 to 3 towels, cotton balls, a cup, alcohol wipes, unscented
mild soap such as Dove soap or pure castile soap, and baby
shampoo. |
| #2.
Take the baby with
your dominant hand around the back, and grasp your baby's
shoulder with your thumb and forefinger so your forearm
and wrist are supporting her head and neck. Maintain this
supportive shoulder hold throughout the bath. Place your
other hand under the buttocks, and sit her in the water. |
| #3.
Take your hand out
from under the baby's bottom, keeping the head and shoulder
supported with your dominant hand. Start by washing the
face: With a clean corner of a washcloth or moistened cotton
ball, wash each eye, moving from the inner to the outer
corner. Use only warm water. Wash the nose with another
clean corner of the washcloth and the mouth with another. |
| #4.
Wash the baby's neck,
chest, belly, and back. |
| #5.
Using a small amount
of soap, wash legs and feet, and rinse. Be sure to clean
all the little folds, and rinse well. Leave the genitals
and buttock area for last, after you have washed the baby's
hair. |
| #6.
To get ready for
the shampoo, slide the baby forward in the tub, and tilt
her back so that the water will drain away from her face.
Keep your supporting arm under the baby's head and shoulders.
Use your free hand to gently pour water over the crown of
the head. |
| #7.
Using a pea-size
amount of shampoo, lather the baby's hair, and rinse. If
the baby has dandruff or a scaly scalp, oil her head before
the bath with a small amount of olive oil or apricot-kernel
oil. Massage the oil into the scalp, and leave on for about
15 minutes. Comb out dandruff, then shampoo. |
| #8.
Rinse the baby's
hair, pouring the water over her head, away from the face.
When you are finished with the hair, wash the genitals and
buttock area with a small amount of soap, and rinse. |
| #9.
Turn the basin so
you are face to face with your baby. Maintaining a supportive
head-and-shoulder hold, lift her from the basin, and place
her on a towel laid flat next to the basin. |
| #10.
Dry the baby, and
swaddle her. Always keep at least one hand on her while
she is lying on the table. This is a good time to do some
massage if the room is warm and the baby is comfortable. |
Sleeping
101
Nighttime
waking is one of the most common dilemmas for new parents. Sometimes
a baby who started out sleeping through the night will begin waking
again, much to the dismay of his or her mom and dad! I wish I
could offer you a magical solution to help you get more sleep
at night. Here are a few simple tips you may want to try to get
a bit more uninterrupted sleep:
Keep to
a routine
If your
baby wakes up late in the morning to help make up for some of
his late nights, begin waking him at an earlier time each day
to help encourage him to get the sleep he needs at night -- when
the rest of the household sleeps.
When your
baby naps, allow him to sleep in a well-lit area
This will
help encourage shorter naps, which in turn may help him sleep
better at night.
During
the day, nurse in a quiet, darkened room
Newborns
are often caught up in what is going on around them. Feeding him
more during the day will allow him to meet his nutritional needs
at a time more convenient to you.
Is your
baby using a pacifier?
If so,
allow him to meet his sucking needs at your breast instead, offering
nursing in lieu of the pacifier. Regular nursing sessions during
the day may help to reduce his middle of the night waking.
When nursing,
allow your baby to finish the first breast offered
This will
provide him with more of your rich hindmilk, which may also help
to space out his nighttime feeds.
Carry
your baby
-- with
the aid of a sling or other baby carrier. This will help to keep
your baby relaxed, especially during the early evening hours,
encouraging an easy transition to sleep.
Keep the
evening calm to avoid overstimulation
If a bath
is relaxing for your little one, you can bathe him before bed.
If it's too stimulating, bathe him at another time.
Nurse
in a darkened room at night
--if your
son wakes and wants to feed. Avoid nighttime diaper changes if
at all possible. Let him know that night is for sleeping. Pulling
him in bed with you will allow you to get some rest while he nurses.
This helps many moms get the rest they need when they have a wakeful
baby.
And don't
forget to take care of yourself!
Rest while
your baby rests
-- with
the aid of a sling or other baby carrier. This will help to keep
your baby relaxed, especially during the early evening hours,
encouraging an easy transition to sleep.
Keep the
evening calm to avoid overstimulation
This is
especially important when you have a high-need baby.
Take a
walk
Sunshine
and fresh air are good for both of you. Going out together, with
your baby in a sling, baby carrier or stroller can be a great
stress reliever.
Debbi
Donovan, IBCLC
Debbi
Donovan is the Director of ParentsPlace.com.
She is a Board Certified Lactation Consultant, as well as a retired
La Leche League Leader. |