Beyond Birthday Parties
By Lisa James, senior staff writer & Lori Garcia, editor-in-chief

“What kind of party do you want to have this year?” you may find yourself asking your kids. Most likely your child will answer that question quickly. If you’re lucky it will be something simple like Barbie or Blue’s Clues. But, what if your child says he wants the Alien Invaders from the Volcano Planet of Mars birthday party? Don’t panic! There are fun and easy ways to come up with unique birthday parties that will please you, the guests and the birthday child.

The best way to start is to talk to your child about what he or she would like. Create a theme and build around it. Once you have a theme, make a guest list. This will help you figure out what kinds of activities and food you will need.

Next, take the theme and get creative. Kids don’t need to have a lot of decorations, fancy plates and matching napkins. They are more interested in the games and food. Spend your time creating fun games and treats and less time on the scenery.

Here are a few ideas that your birthday boy or girl is sure to love.

1-2-Year-Old Ducky Party

Rubber duckies are more than just for baths; they make any birthday party a real splash.

Invitations:

Make your own ducky invitations such as these:

(1) Cut cardstock into an 8 1/2” by 5 1/2” strip. Fold down the center to make a card.

(2) Stamp blue bubbles onto the card with circle stamp.

(3) With a large circle punch, punch out the center of the card.

(4) Cut strips of blue vellum paper (we made ours blue by water coloring clear vellum) with decorative scissors to create ocean waves.

(5) Tape the strip to the back of the circle so that it is covering it halfway.

(6) Using a duck punch, punch a duck out of yellow paper. Color on a beak with an orange marker and dot the eye with a black one.

(7) Glue the duck to inside of the card so it looks like it’s floating in the water.

(8) Write in words for the invitation around the circle cutout and inside the card. Note, it’s good to keep the writing on the inside of the card so it doesn’t show from the outside.

Activities:

 

 

 

 

Balloons: It’s hard to keep the attention of young children. Sometimes having balloons is enough of a game to keep kids interested.

Bean Bag Toss: You can also make your own bean bags and have a bean bag toss. Try putting a series of plastic pails in a row and have each child try to toss the bean bag in the pails.

Pool Party: A dip in the pool is another good game idea for a ducky party. Make sure children are supervised at all times by a parent.

Food:

3D Duck Cake (from Wiltons): Ask your local bakery or cake supply store to see if you can rent this pan. We found we could rent ours for $3 at a local cake and candy supply.

Rubber Ducky Cupcakes: Frost cupcakes with a light coat of blue frosting. Place rubber ducky on top. Using a medium round cake decorating tip, squeeze blue bubbles onto the cupcake and the duck.

> Try our Duck-shaped Cheese

Duck Pond Punch Bowl: Fill a punch bowl with blue drink mix. Float rubber duckies in the bowl for your very own duck pond.

> Try our Duck-shaped Gelatin Jiggles



(LEFT)
Rubber ducky cupcakes. (TOP) Rubber duckies float in a pond of punch.

 

Favors:

Mini Bubbles: dress them up with labels with your child’s name and birthday (SEE FIGURE A)

Rubber Duckies: make a cute favor.

Duck-shaped Soap: make your own using glycerin soap (SEE FIGURE B)

Ducky Water Shakers: fill mini plastic soda bottles with blue beads and create a duck using polymer clay (be sure to read the instructions on the back for baking time of the duck) use distilled water so it won’t cloud over and Super Glue the lids back on. (SEE FIGURE C)


FIGURE A

FIGURE B

FIGURE C
Gifts:

Gift Exchange: Since one and two-year-olds are still quite young to understand the concept of birthdays and presents, try having a gift exchange instead. Have each child bring a small wrapped, inexpensive gift. Place the gifts on a table and have each child take turns selecting one. Once everyone has a gift, unwrap them on the count of three. Everyone goes home with a gift, and everyone is happy.

Duck Pond Gift Exchange: Fill a baby pool with a couple inches of water (Warning: even a couple of inches of water can be deadly to children. Be sure all children are properly supervised at all times.) Have one rubber duck for each child. Number each duck and write it on the bottom. Number each present. As the children “draw” ducks, give them the coordinating present.

Alternative Gift Idea: Have children bring bath toys, special soaps, rubber duckies, sailboats, bath crayons, etc., to make bath time extra fun for your little birthday boy or girl.

Variations:

The Ducky Party can easily be changed to a fish party, a sailboat party or even a bubble party.

Sailboat Cake:

(1) Bake a regular two layer cake and frost with white or light blue tinted frosting.

(2) Add three Twinkie-like cakes to the top.

(3) Cut out three sail shapes out of colored paper and three flag shapes.

(4) Punch in two places so the straw will slide through easily.

(5) Slide the sail on first, in from the back out through the top front.

(6) Next slide on the flag.

(7) Place bottom of straw securely in to the snack cake and the layer cake.

(8) Add darker blue frosting waves to the side of the cake.

 

3-5-year-old Cowboy/Cowgirl Party
Rop'em up, little cow poke. Throwing a cowboy party is more fun than you can shake a stick at. Here's some ideas that are guaranteed to be a root'n toot'n good time.

Activities:

Dress'em Up: Start this party off by giving each guest a bandana (or colorful fabric cut to the size of a bandana - 21 inches x 21 inches) and tie it for a neckerchief. For some added fun, draw on curly mustaches and little villain beards with eye liner. Take pictures!

Sheriff's Badges: Have some craft foam cut out in oversized stars for the children to decorate with markers, buttons, glitter and fun jewels. This can be their Sheriff’s badge. Have a safety pin hot glued to the back of the star before the party starts and then the guests can wear their badges for the rest of the party.

Hi-Ho Silver: With clean, old socks and about 36 inch lengths of 1 inch PVC pipes your guests can create their own stick horses. Let the children decorate the socks with markers, yarn and buttons to design the horses head. Stuff the heads with crumpled up paper or plastic grocery bags. Tie the socks to the PVC pipes. Don’t forget to have the children name their new horsy friend and let the races begin.

Races: You can have barrel races, obstacle course races and flat out sprints. When your cowboys and cowgirls are all tuckered out, it is time for some good ‘ole Boot Cake.

Food:

> Try our Rodeo Roll-ups

> Try our Horse Biscuits

Boot Cake :

Ingredients:
- cake mix
- frosting, tinted to your liking
- regular large size bag of M&M-like candy

(1) Prepare cake mix in 9 x 13 inch pan according to directions on box and let cool.

(2) Wrap in foil and freeze for two hours. After freezing, do not thaw. The best way to cut a decorative cake is when it is frozen.

(3) Cut the cake in pieces following the diagram below.


FIGURE A

(4) Using the frosting as glue, frost the ends of pieces and stick together to form the boot shape. Cut a slight curve in at the top of the boot and in the toe of the boot. (See Figure B)

(5) Frost the top and sides of cake with a crumb coat of white frosting and return boot cake to the freezer for an hour.

(6) Remove cake from freezer and refrost with brown frosting (or whatever color your little cowpoke desire).

(7) Pipe in the seams and any decoration you wish.

(8) Add candy for more decorative fun.


FIGURE B

Favors:

Moo-velous Goody Bags: Easy goodie bags can be made from plain brown paper bags. A few days before the party sponge on a few black cow spots and use ripped strips of red checked fabric for ties. Fill your Moo-velous goody bags with trail mix and other fun little toys.


6-8-Year-Old- Garden Tea Party

What could be more fun then a beautiful garden filled with graceful little girls pretending to be grown ups at a prim and proper garden party.

Activities:

Decorate a Lovely Party Hat: Start this party off with your guests decorating inexpensive hats with jewels, pompoms, buttons, feathers and other fun crafty items.

Party Games: While the hats dry, teach the girls to play jacks or Chinese jump rope. Both of these games make great take home gifts.

Food:

Now with your beautifully fancy hats on, lead the party goers to the garden set up with chairs and tables with pretty table cloths. Have the tables set with nice dishes, if you dare and have them find their names on pretty place cards.

Serve a light luncheon of ham salad, egg salad, jam and butter and cucumber and butter finger sandwiches. Cherry tomatoes hallowed out and filled with cream cheese and dill weed are pretty and taste too.

Special glasses filled with lemonade will hit the spot, as well.
Instead of cake try having fancy ice cream sundaes for dessert, tall glasses, long spoons, whipped cream and a cherry on top will make the day!

Or if cake is a must, try a Cherry Chip Trifle.

Cherry Chip Trifle:

Ingredients:
- Cherry chip cake mix
- Vanilla pudding
- Nondairy whipped topping
- Cherry pie filling, one can

(1) Bake cherry chip cake mix in a 9 x 13 inch pan

(2) Cut the cake into one-inch squares.

(3) In a large, pretty glass bowl put 1/3 of the cake squares.

(4) Then pour 1/3 of the pudding over the cake.

(5) Spoon 1/3 of cherry pie filling on next.

(6) Spread about 1/3 of the cool whip-like topping on next.

(7) Repeat layers until done.

(8) Chill for an hour or two before serving.

Favors:

The girls will long remember this party when they see their beautiful hats hanging on their walls.


6-8-Year-Old Pirate Party
Transform your child's birthday party into a pirate's treasure hunt with these fun and creative ideas any little "matey" will love.
Invitations:

Make a treasure hunt invitation for a festive pirate party. (Warning: this invitation should be made by adults as flames are used to burn the edges)

Supplies:
- Cream colored cardstock
- Matches (Warning: only adults should use matches.)
- Felt-tip pens
- Plastic gold coins
- Plastic soda bottles (individual or mini size)
- Sand
- Sea shells
- Adhesive mail labels

(1) Cut cardstock in quarters.

(2) Have a parent use a flame to burn the edges of the invitations.

(3) Use felt pens to write the information on the invitations, trying to create a kind of "old world" caligraphy look. Set aside.

(4) Fill a clean and dry plastic soda bottle with a little bit of sand (note, the more sand you put in it, the heavier and more expensive the invite will be to mail.)

(5) Roll up the invitation and stick it into the bottle.

(6) Add a few shells and plastic coins. Close up bottle with cap.

(7) Stick on adhesive mail label and check with your local post office about how much postage you will need. You should be able to mail the plastic bottle as is without additional packaging.

Activities:

Decorate Head Cloths: As your guests arrive, have them decorate pirate head cloths. A plain piece of fabric cut to 21 inches x 21 inches will be great fun to decorate with markers. Tie each head cloth to the guest before they hunt for treasure.

 

Treasure Hunt:

"Captain Dirty Dog of the Mangy Mongrel has buried his treasure in your back yard. It is up to your guests to follow the clues and the map to discover the hiding place."

Have a poster with this information on it before the guests’ arrival. Locate 8-10 places that are easily described for your clue locations.

Example:
"Avast you Pirates!

You are looking for the treasure of Captain Dirty Dog the Pirate. His treasure is hidden where you’ll never find it. Read carefully and look hard and don’t give up!

Your first clue-
Feet first then bump, bump, bump.
If you don’t move fast, you’ll land on your RUMP!
It is green and long,
The bottom touches the ground.
Look underneath,
and all around."

This clue takes your guests to the backyard slide.

Space the clues out a bit so the kids will be running back and forth and all over the yard. Be sure to lay some ground rules before you begin. "No running," is a good one. Also, have one designated clue reader, the birthday child is a good choice. The reader must read the clues out loud and all the way through until the hunt resumes.

For the last clue use a simple treasure map that will lead them to the ‘treasure of Captain Dirty Dog.’

This is a great way to hand out goody bags.

Food:

> Try our Pirate Pizza

> Pirate Ship Cake and a Treasure Chest Cake from FamilyFun.com

Favors:

Simple brown paper bags with a big ‘X’ on them work well for this party. You could also create “Pete the Pirate” party boxes for the goodie bags.

Pete The Pirate Party Boxes:

Supplies:
- Empty cereal boxes (one for each guest)
- Wrapping paper or colored paper
- Skin tone paper
- Assorted colored paper for hair, hats and cutlass sword

(1) Using the empty cereal boxes, cut off the top flaps.

(2) Cut each side of the box down at an angle, about two inches. This will make the back of the box taller then the front by a few inches.

(3) Cover the box in fancy wrapping paper or plain colored paper. Be sure to cover the top half of the inside of the box as well.

(4) With the same colored paper cut two ‘arms’, nine inches by two inches for each goodie box.

(5) Cut out skin tone circles, seven inches in diameter. Each circle will serve as a head for the pirate. Draw on the eyes, nose and mouth.

(6) Using the same colored paper, cut out two simple hands for each box.

(7) Add construction paper hair. Cut out pirate hats and a white skull to go on the top.

(8) Glue head to top of box, making sure to only glue the bottom half to the box so that the head will be high enough to see over the lower front.

(9) Glue arms to the back of the box and to the front, letting the ‘elbows’ loosely hang at the sides.

(10) Add hands and with white or grey paper, cut out the shape of a cutlass sword and add under the hands.

The guest will be so excited to see ‘Pete the Pirate” boxes filled with goodies just for them.

Treasures could be anything from bags of golden chocolate coins, personal eye patches or bottles of bubbles.



9-10-Year-Old Mission Impossible/Spy/Detective Party
Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to plan a very mysterious party.
Invitations:

(TOP) Bomb invitations closed. (RIGHT) Bomb invitation opened.

Bomb Invitations:

Supplies:
- Water balloon
- Old newspaper
- Flour

(1) Blow up a small water balloon and papier-mâché around it using a 50/50 flour-water paste.

(2) Once dry, pop the balloon, cut a small 3/4 inch hole in the top.

(3) Paint the ‘bomb’ black.

(4) Print out strips of paper with your party info on it and stick it in the ‘bomb’ with the end sticking out.

(5) Add a fuse with a pipe cleaner and sparks with colored paper and you are ready to deliver.

Here is some example text:

“Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to attend Julie’s birthday party at the city park. The date set for your mission is July 30th at 2:30 pm. This mission is sure to have lots of food, fun and adventure!”

Activities:

Mission - Find the Cake: When guests arrive tell them the party, cake, or whatever, has been stolen, and the thief has left clues for them to recover the missing items. The hunt will be the main game for this party. About an hour before the party, hide 10-12 clues around the area of your party. Some of your clues could be in code and others in rhyme. If you plan on having quite a few guests, have them divided into teams. The envelopes containing the clues should be in a different color for each team; the blue team, the red team, the green team, etc. Be sure to arm them with detective gear before the hunt.

This party is great at a park. Be sure that the guests know where you will be in case they have a question about the clues.

Foam Picture Frame Craft: If you have enough time for a craft at your party, have your guests make inexpensive foam picture frames. Cut out black foam into the shape of a rounded frame, 5 inches wide by 4 inches high. Cut out the middle of the frame in a 3 1/4 by 2 1/4. This will leave about an inch all the way around the outside of the frame. Hot glue a magnet to the back of the frame before the party.

Have items like eyes and question marks pre cut or let the guests create their own. Have fun extras like googly eyes and glitter to add to the frame. Make sure you have enough glue and scissors for all the guests. Have them create their masterpieces on a sturdy paper plate that they can take home with them. The glue takes time to dry and the frame will need to remain flat while drying.

Food:

> Try our Mission Possible Pizza

> Try our Ham SPY-rills

> Try our Code-breaker Crackers

Bomb Cake :

(Note, Depending on how many guests you have, you may need to make more then one of these cakes. One cake serves about 10 guests.)

Ingredients:
- Your favorite cake mix
- Chocolate or black-tinted frosting

(1) Prepare cake mix as directed. Grease and flour two one-quart Pyrex round mixing bowls. (Note: Be sure that the bowls you use say that they are safe for oven use.)

(2) Divide the cake batter between the bowls and bake at 325 degrees for 45 to 55 minutes. Cakes are done when toothpick comes out clean.

(3) Cool for 10 minutes in bowl and then remove from bowl and continue cooling on racks.

(4) You may need to slice off a thin layer from the top of each cake to make flat. Place one layer on a plate so it looks like a bowl. Frost the top.

(5) Place the next layer inverted unto the bottom layer to form the "bomb." Frost the entire cake.

(6) Place a candle at an angle and you've got a dynamite bomb cake ready for tasting!

Favors:

Detective Gear: Give each detective a little bag with a pencil, magnifying glass, note book and decoder book. This will be used during the hunt and enjoyed at home after the party as well.

Be Our Guest

Wondering how many guests you should invite to your little one's upcoming fiesta? How soon should you send out invitations? When's the best time to hold a party? Experts make these recommendations:

• Number of guests
for each age group:

A good gage is to invite as many guests as your child is old. If your child is celebrating his third birthday, try inviting three friends to the party.

• Time appropriate
for each age group:
Parties don’t have to be long and drawn out. One hour to an hour and a half is good for the younger kids. Older children will enjoy about two hours of a party.

• When to send out invitations:
Send out invitations about seven to 10 days in advance of the party. Try not to send them to school unless you plan on inviting everyone in the classroom.

• What time of day to hold the party:
For younger children, ages 1-4, plan your party for the morning or for right after ‘nap’ time. Older children will enjoy a party at anytime of the day.

Theme choices:
Think of the season, snowman party in January, costume party in October, etc.

• Be flexible:
If they don’t want to play the games you have set up for them, let them play an impromptu game of tag instead.


Adapting Pin the Tail
on the Donkey

Pin the tail on the donkey can be converted into many other theme versions.
- Pin the patch on the Pirates eye.

- Crown the princess (use an 8x10 photo of the birthday girl for the princess)

- Pin the light on the train engine.

- Pin the frog on the lily pad.

- Pin the flower on the hat.

- Pin the nose on the clown.

- Pin the star on the sheriff.

- Pin the eye on the alien (one eyed alien of course)

- Stick the duck in the pond.

- Put the ball in the catcher’s glove.

These can be easily made by drawing a simple picture on to poster board and then cutting out enough of the item to be pinned on the pictures.


Sending Thank-yous

Preplanned Thank-yous:
For smaller parties, have printed thank-yous ready to be filled in and placed in the take home goodie bags. For example:

"Thank you for the ____________.
I really like it! I am glad you could come to my party.

Your friend,
Molly"

Picture Thank-yous:
Take fun pictures of each child at the party and after developing mail the picture and a thank you along with it.

Address Your Own:
For older children’s parties, have each guest address their own thank you envelope for easier sending.

> Cake Finder from FamilyFun.com

Party Food
Food at parties should be light and easy! Here are a few snacks that can be adapted to any theme party.

Cheese Shapes :

 

Slice hard cheese like cheddar into long thin strips. Use a cookie cutter to cut out shapes that will go with the theme of your party.

 

 

Pirate Pizza (Possible Pizza, Posse Pizza etc.)
Ingredients:
- 1 English muffin per guest (split in half)
- 2 small cans tomato sauce
- oregano and basil to taste
- assorted favorite pizza toppings (pepperoni, green peppers, mushrooms... chopped)
- 2 to 3 cups grated mozzarella cheese

(1) Heat the broiler and toast the English muffins for 1 to 2 minutes.

(2) Place the tomato sauce in a container mixed with the basil and oregano.

(3) Place each pizza topping in an individual bowl.

(4) Let your guests spread a spoonful of tomato sauce on top of their muffin half.

(5) Layer on choice of toppings.

(6) Broil for a few more minutes until cheese is melted.


Rodeo Roll- Ups (Ham SPY-rills, Swab sandwich, etc.)

Ingredients:
- Thin sliced ham
- Cream cheese
- Dill pickles, whole

(1) Blot the ham with a paper towel to get rid of some of the moisture.

(2) On a flat surface, spread a layer of cream cheese on the ham.

(3) Place the whole pickle on one end of the ham and roll.

(4) Refrigerate for an hour or two before slicing and serving.

 

Smooth Sailing Salami Snacks (Horse Biscuits, Code Breaker Crackers, etc.)

Ingredients:
- package of round snack crackers
- can of tomato paste
- 1/4 teaspoon garlic salt
- 1/4 teaspoon oregano
- thin sliced salami
- 1 cup finely shredded cheddar cheese

(1) Preheat oven to 400 degrees.

(2) Mix tomato paste with garlic salt and oregano.

(3) Cut salami in small squares that will fit on top of crackers.

(4) Spread a light layer of tomato paste on the crackers.

(5) Place a piece of salami onto cracker and sprinkle a little bit of the Cheddar cheese on top.

(6) Place crackers on ungreased cookie sheet. Bake for 2 to 3 minutes or until cheese melts.



Gelatin Jiggle Snacks in Theme Shapes

Ingredients:
- 4 boxes of flavored gelatin (4 serving sizes)
- 2 cups boiling water or boiling apple juice (Do not add cold water)

(1) Stir boiling water or boiling apple juice into gelatin in large bowl at least 3 minutes until completely dissolved. Pour into 13 x 9 inch pan.

(2) Refrigerate at least 3 hours or until firm.

(3) Dip bottom of pan in warm water about 15 seconds. Cut into decorative shapes with cookie cutters all the way through the gelatin. Lift from pan. Makes about 24 pieces.

Pineapple flavor makes a yummy yellow duck.
Try grape horses or orange stars for your cowboys and cowgirls.
You can find cookie cutters in so many shapes these days, you should have no problem getting something to match your theme.

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