Have you ever thought of the menopause as fun? I thought of it in many other ways before it was my turn-none of which promoted feelings of amusement. But, because so many people related doom and gloom stories, I decided to investigate this thing that would inevitably descend upon me once our four children were grown, and see if there was some way it could be a good and healthy experience. After all, it is a natural process bestowed upon us by a loving and compassionate Heavenly Father.

By Anne Bradshaw, staff writer

Menopause & You

Ten years beyond, having now 'been there, done that', I'm pleased to report there is life before, during, and after the menopause. And it doesn't have to involve taking manufactured hormones, or drugs, or undergoing a hysterectomy. These measures may be necessary for some people, but, with careful application of natural techniques, a vast number of women can discover that the menopause is a pleasant transition stage-one that takes them to new heights, instead of dumping them on depression's doorstep.

In case anyone's wondering-the word menopause comes from the Greek-meno, meaning month, and pause, from pausis, meaning halt. However, when most people use the term, they are referring to the whole period a woman goes through, both before, during, and after her final menstruation, known as perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopausal. Because every woman is a biochemical and physiological individual, this time of life can last from a few months to as long as fifteen years. A specific age isn't the trigger for the menopause. It occurs because the ovaries have used up their limited number of eggs produced and carried from birth. This number varies in each individual.

Through years of prayerfully reading every article and book I could find that discussed this phase of life, I have gained knowledge and developed a system that works for me. Maybe it will work for you.

I'm not advocating eliminating traditional medicine, for which I have the greatest respect most of the time. I have found through trial and error, that adding complimentary medicine, together with the right food, regular exercise, sufficient sleep, nutritional supplements, and an open-minded effort to solve problems as they arise, will eliminate any small discomforts before they become major. When necessary for peace of mind, I've sought a doctor's advice, and a couple of times needed minor surgery. But I'm convinced that if at all possible, it is far better in the long run to keep intact the parts God originally gave us.

Some women are at high-risk during this season of their lives, and it is wise to seek a doctor's assessment and treatment if in danger of heart disease and osteoporosis. Women who are moderate-to-high-risk will possibly need some drug therapy for prevention of these diseases; with natural therapies for treatment of more benign symptoms, such as hot flashes, breast cysts, and mood swings. If you fall in the low-to-low-moderate-risk category, then natural treatments can control the whole process, reducing the risk of disease, and significantly optimizing health.

For those women who haven't yet reached this amazing stage of life, my advice is make sure you keep as healthy as possible before the grand event. That way, you will fall into the low-risk group and be able to glide through without trauma or expense.

The Importance of Your Diet

How grateful I've been for the Word of Wisdom. It is definitely a menopause aid. Articles state that smoking decreases the effectiveness of estrogen made by the ovaries; and smokers are more likely to suffer from osteoporosis. Colas and other fizzy drinks are packed with phosphorous, a mineral that causes calcium to be leached from the bones. Some phosphorous and calcium is essential for bone building, but when either is taken in excess neither are absorbed, but get carried out of the body. Laxatives, diuretics, antacids, and tetracyclines also impede calcium absorption.

Taking extra magnesium can make a big difference to good calcium metabolism. It is a crucial element in many body processes, and can be found in whole grains, and legumes such as lentils, beans and peas. If taken in capsule form (avoid any hard tablets as they don't digest well), as a calcium/magnesium supplement, make sure it is calcium citrate (others are not easily absorbed), and in a ratio of 300 mg calcium to 150 mg magnesium. And take less than the suggested dose, supplemented with the right foods.

A surprise to me was discovering that milk is not the best source of calcium for adults because it causes a disorder in calcium metabolism. After three generations of milk promotion, osteoporosis has reached epidemic proportions in the Western world, but in countries where milk is not consumed incidences are practically nonexistent. While milk is wonderful for young mammals, as we mature, our bodies slowly lose the ability to produce lactase, the enzyme responsible for digesting milk sugar. According to studies, three out of four adults in the USA have lactose intolerance to some extent. This results in lower energy levels, excess mucus production, mood swings, depression, and various unaccountable aches and pains.

Consider where the calcium in milk comes from in the first place. Cows eat green foods-grass, herbs and other plants. One cup of broad-leafed green vegetables (as well as lettuce, seaweeds, herbs and beetroot tops) gives the body as much calcium as a cup of milk-in an easily assimilated form-together with a variety of other valuable minerals and trace elements. I'm not suggesting we're put out to pasture, but we will benefit one hundred percent from eating regular amounts of dark green vegetables. Explore the produce shelves. Treat yourself to something different. Greens taste delectable when sautéed gently in olive oil, with crushed garlic and salt, taking only minutes to prepare.

I also add to my diet other calcium and zinc rich items such as soymilk, crushed flax seeds, sesame seeds, nuts, and whole grains foods (recipe below). Postmenopausal women often have lowered concentrations of hydrochloric acid in the stomach, causing poor absorption of calcium, and poor digestion of food. To counteract this, try sipping a glassful of water with meals, to which a dessertspoon of organic cider vinegar (from the health shop, NOT the grocery store variety) has been added. Honey can also be added if required.

There is still some controversy about using high doses of soy in concentrated capsule or powder form, and it is suggested that for those women who are in danger of breast cancer, soy foods such as tofu, soymilk, and lecithin are a safer way to go. A typical three-ounce serving of tofu contains about 23 milligrams of isoflavones-the major group of phytoestrogens. Phyto, or plant estrogens, mimic human estrogens in a safer way than chemically manufactured estrogens. However, too much phyto is not the answer either, and can lead to trouble. It's all about balance.

The hormones estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone are key players in this aging process. As the ovaries dwindle in production, so the creation of hormones fluctuates and decreases, causing bothersome symptoms such as hot flashes, night sweats, vaginal dryness, libido, and mood swings. However, it is possible for the body to maintain an adequate production of estrogen without resorting to the chemical variety.

Provided a woman's body is healthy and in good balance, estrogen continues to be produced in fat cells, the liver, and in the adrenals. It would seem that it is the lack of progesterone and/or testosterone that can cause chronic fatigue, depression, hot flushes, anxiety, and other emotional upsets. Instead of being told to 'pull herself together', a woman needs to hear 'let's restore your hormonal balance'.

A friend recently went through the experience of postmenopausal bleeding. She had never used hormone replacements from the doctor, but had replaced milk with soy products, thus maintaining a steady source of phytoestrogen into her body. After an investigation for possible endometrial cancer, it was found that all was well, no cancer. The bleeding came from a loosening of the uterus lining, built up by extra estrogen. She was told to carry on with her diet, and to ignore occasional bleeding unless she was worried enough to get it checked again. The right balance of natural progesterone could help balance the estrogen levels and prevent further build up.

According to Leslie Kenton, in her excellent book, Passage To Power (see below), synthetic progestogens do not match the body's chemistry, which isn't equipped to metabolize them properly. Synthetic progestogen can often aggravate the very conditions it is supposed to alleviate, causing moodiness and irritability. Natural progesterone, on the other hand, if the right dosage is found, is apt to bring calmness and stability. There is much confusion over these two products, and much blame given to the natural progesterone, when it is in fact the fake that can cause trouble.

Natural progesterone cream made from wild yams, can be obtained from your local health store, and when used as recommended, can give physical and emotional well being, together with an increased sense of energy. And contrary to some doctors' belief, it really does get absorbed into the system through the skin. Progestogen, on the other hand, is chemically manufactured from progesterone derived also from the wild yam plant.  Occasionally, the initial use of progesterone cream can make you more sensitive to your body estrogens, and for a short time symptoms such as breast tenderness can worsen. These symptoms soon vanish as the estrogen dominance recedes, and the system should rebalance itself.

In addition, it has been found that when menopausal women rub progesterone cream into the body as directed, it can often eliminate excess facial hair, strengthen weakened nails, and develop thicker hair on the head. It can reduce water retention because it is a natural diuretic; will often reduce high blood pressure; and can make the body use its own thyroid more effectively, thus removing the need for medication. It can also remove and/or reduce fibrocystic breast disease, ovarian cysts, and endometrial thickening together with fibroid tumors.

It is always best to seek professional advice before embarking on self-treatment with any hormones as individual body needs vary. An herbalist, homeopathic, or naturopathic doctor is recommended.

Maintaining your ideal body weight through exercise (see previous article on Walking To Fitness) drastically reduces the risk of heart disease, diabetes, colon, lung and bowel cancer, and lung disease. And it can help prevent or relieve many menopausal discomforts.

Herbal Relief

Other herbs and nutrients I have found to be effective during this interesting time, are Black Cohash, Evening Primrose Oil, and Vitamin E. Read directions and enjoy the consequences. Besides all this, I drink sufficient purified water; use Melatonin tincture when my normal sleep pattern is altered and needs fixing; take a quality, odor-free garlic capsule daily (and eat raw or cooked garlic several times a week-wonderful for lowering cholesterol); eat a daily cupful of organic, natural yoghurt from the health store-this prevents Candida or Thrush; and enjoy fattening treats in moderation.

I avoid using products containing propylene glycol, sodium laurel sulphate, or aluminum. These chemicals are found in many lotions, creams and toothpastes, and can cause a multitude of annoying symptoms, such as headaches and other pains. Aluminum is the main ingredient in most toothpaste. Choosing carefully from alternative natural products from your health store can ease numerous issues.

This season of my life has been full to bursting with marvelous experiences. Many of them have included opposition and its ensuing challenges, but these have been overcome through faith in the Savior, and through a determination not to be beaten. Through prayerfully studying out issues relating to the menopause, using books, health magazines, the Internet, and relevant radio and TV programs, I have arrived at the other side of the 'big M' intact and raring to go. I'm doing more now, by way of writing, church service, genealogy, grand parenting, reading, and exercising, than I ever did in previous years.

Who says this season is the end? I believe it's the beginning of a more creative time; a time to develop talents, improve physical health, strengthen a marriage or friendship; and possibly serve a mission; but above all, I feel it is a time to reflect on the goodness and mercy of a kind and loving Heavenly Father through whom all things are possible-even surviving the menopause.

Recipe for English Breakfast Muesli

Enough to fill a large storage container.

Thoroughly mix together in huge bowl:
1 Box of bran flakes, or raisin bran
Extra scoopful of raisins and/or cranberries
Rolled Oats-organic are best (same proportion as branflakes)
Sesame seeds (to taste - I use one cup)
Pumpkin seeds (as above)
Sunflower seeds (as above)
Any combination of chopped or crushed nuts
PLUS any other healthy cereal, granola or dried fruit to taste
You can omit or add to any of these items as preferred

For one serving, scoop out half a cupful, and add soymilk, ground flax seed (large spoonful), and fruit in season. Great start to the day. Chew well and ENJOY!

Some information used by kind permission of the author, Leslie Kenton, from Passage to Power, Published by Vermillion, £6.99. For more information and to order Leslie's books please visit Leslie's website www.lesliekenton.com

And from The Giant Book of Women's Health Secrets
By Kerri Bodmer and Nan Kathryn Fuchs, PhD
ISBN 1-885385-00-5
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